College life can be stressful. Stress appears in a variety of ways from challenging course work to managing roommate relationships. What is stressful to one person is not always stressful to another. Recognizing what stresses you out is the first step to managing stress in a positive and productive way.
Stress and anxiety are different.
Stress is a response to a threat in a situation. Anxiety is a reaction to the stress.
There are two types of stress.
External triggers, like getting a bad grade or a disagreement with a friend.
Internal triggers, like placing high expectations on yourself or fear of public speaking.
Stress can be good for you.
It can be that extra pressure to complete an assignment by the deadline.
But excessive stress can be bad for your emotional and physical health.
When stress becomes too much, it can limit your ability to function at your best.
Are you experiencing too much stress? Common signs:
- Difficulty concentrating
- Increased worrying
- Trouble completing assignments on time
- Not going to class
- Short temper or increased agitation
- Tight muscles
- Rapid heart rate
- Unexpected changes in heart rate
- Changes in eating habits (e.g, “stress eating”)
- Changes in sleeping habits
What You Can Do Right Now
- Take a few deep breaths.
Breathing in more oxygen helps reduce your heart rate and relax your body. Try listening to a guided meditation for different breathing techniques.
- Limit alcohol and caffeinated beverages.
These can make you more tense or nervous. Drink flavored water or non-caffeinated tea.
- Learn your triggers.
Is it school, work, family, social life? When these feelings come up, write it down log it on your phone. Look for patterns. Knowing what stresses us the most is the best way to identify solutions.
- Accept that you cannot control everything.
Many things in life are out of your control. But you can control your response. Try to put your stressors in perspective. Ask yourself, “Is this really as bad as I think?”
Any form of exercise, from walking to yoga, can help boost your mood.
- Get some sleep.
Don't let lack of ZZZs get you down. Prioritize sleep daily.
- Be kind to yourself.
Nobody is perfect. We place high expectations on ourselves. Everyday think about something you like about yourself or what you do really well.
- Seek help when needed.
Whether it’s talking to a trusted friend, reaching out to a family member, or seeing a counselor/therapist, accepting that you may need help is a step towards improving your mental well-being.
How We Can Help
Prioritize YOU: A Self-Care Workshop
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